My gf has gone to Florida

Sweet love . You thinking about popping "The Question" any time soon dave?

Ocfos has had that idea for years. Mission Failed.

i'm only 16 ._.

Ocfos has had that idea for years. Mission Failed.

Fission Mailed

Fission Mailed

Who's going fishing? <*(((>{

Ocfos has had that idea for years. Mission Failed.

Fission Mailed

LETTER BOMB!
KA-BOOOM

Sweet love . You thinking about popping "The Question" any time soon dave?

Christmas Day, most likely

aw. how sweet.

Good luck Dave!

Called off until future notice, we're having a break because she's too much under pressure with college work

Unlucky mate.
Now it really is Fission Mailed...
Still, never know what Christmas will bring!

I'm not counting my chickens just yet, I'm going to wait it out and see what happens. She says she is overwhelmed with college coursework, work work, and muddled up emotions. Hence why she never has the time and energy to see me and also why she wants a break so she can get her head sorted out.

I kinda feel like that if she never has the time to see me at all then she may as well not bother, you know? Plus if given the chance, she may be going to uni a couple of years down the line, therefore I will probably never get to see her hardly at all.

Another concern of mine is she might be simply pushing me away to get with someone else, but I at the same time I doubt that, she has proven herself to be faithful yet at the same time her reliability comes into question. She is defensive about her emotions and when we talked about taking a break I don't even think I got the full story from her.

Decisions, decisions... what to do, what to think and how to feel are all issues for me right now.

Further edit:

We also decided to have a break because apparently I was being too clingy. Well, what do you expect when I haven't even been able to see her much if at all for several weeks, including her 2 week trip to Florida not helping things at all.

From my own experience I can say that most couples who need a 'break' aren't going to end up well.

Then again, you shouldn't take my experience too seriously, since I don't know you and your girlfriend. I'm just saying what I see happening in my life.

From my own experience I can say that most couples who need a 'break' aren't going to end up well.

Then again, you shouldn't take my experience too seriously, since I don't know you and your girlfriend. I'm just saying what I see happening in my life.

I have to disagree, nothing wrong with a break to settle things out. Sometimes a relationship is just too much at once, dave I wouldn't worry about it.

I disagree with Goose's statement, outlook is grim

Either she wants to be with you or not. There is no middle thing. A break will in 9 out of 10 result in a break-up.

Confront here or take the advance method, dont take contact with her unless she does it first with you.

Merry Christmas! Hope im completly wrong and she just has her period.

For the record she doesn't have periods due to a certain type of contraceptive and I'm not willing to confront her. Come christmas day/boxing day, if she wants her presents so badly then she's gonna have to contact me.

That's alot of heavy stuff
Now I see why you're cranky recently, sorry

I disagree with Goose's statement, outlook is grim

That's a shame. Don't give up on love.


yep...