bye i guess :(
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Jan 9, 2010, 12:10 AM#1
i'm crying like hell as my typing this but sadly i am to announce this..
due to my mom punishing me for telling her the truth for long time and doing what she told me to i'm (strangely) being send to a boarding school that's 200km away from home after the 18.th january..
i don't even have any friends now since i'm moving away from my best friend (and only) wich she thinks i'm starting to act like ( Which i'm not
)
and afaik we're not allowed to play computer at the school so i'm gonna loose prolly every reason i have to live..
i'm loosing all of my friends, my family (i'm never gonna talk to my mom again after this and most of the family is sadly dead) and the worst will prolly be that i'm ending a place i don't even know anyone and since i'm very shy IRL when it comes to strangers i'm prolly not gonna get any new friends..
so i guess this is goodbye forever.. or a year..

due to my mom punishing me for telling her the truth for long time and doing what she told me to i'm (strangely) being send to a boarding school that's 200km away from home after the 18.th january..
i don't even have any friends now since i'm moving away from my best friend (and only) wich she thinks i'm starting to act like ( Which i'm not
and afaik we're not allowed to play computer at the school so i'm gonna loose prolly every reason i have to live..
i'm loosing all of my friends, my family (i'm never gonna talk to my mom again after this and most of the family is sadly dead) and the worst will prolly be that i'm ending a place i don't even know anyone and since i'm very shy IRL when it comes to strangers i'm prolly not gonna get any new friends..
so i guess this is goodbye forever.. or a year..
Jan 9, 2010, 12:52 AM#2
Shit. That sucks, my Mum has never went that crazy, I just get sent to live with my Gran alot.
I guess we'll see you in a year
I guess we'll see you in a year
Jan 9, 2010, 12:53 AM#3
You'll be fine pal, just keep calm and dont let anybody fuck ya about.
Do what your mum tells ya too mate trust me she'll be the one person you can always rely on. If she believes this is for the best it probably is.
Good luck mate. Try to enjoy yourself.
Do what your mum tells ya too mate trust me she'll be the one person you can always rely on. If she believes this is for the best it probably is.
Good luck mate. Try to enjoy yourself.
Jan 9, 2010, 12:55 AM#4
Do what your mum tells ya
that's the exact thing i actually did but yet she is doing this against me
Jan 9, 2010, 01:02 AM#5
also on another note i've suddenly started shaking like hell and i feel completely devastated over this..
i think i'm having an emotional breakdown 
Jan 9, 2010, 01:12 AM#6
Wait, why excactly is your mom doing this?
Jan 9, 2010, 01:37 AM#7
i just talked with her again.. and she says i can stay home but at the cost of not seeing my best friend ever again..
so i guess it turned out slightly good
ps. bananana she said she'd do it so i could learn not to go against her
ps. bananana she said she'd do it so i could learn not to go against her
Jan 9, 2010, 01:46 AM#8
Would you care to clarify a bit more on as to why you're being thrown out? If you don't want to talk about it, especially in a forum, I fully understand you, and then please don't talk unless you want to.
Else im on steam most of the time, so feel free to write if you want to have a talk.
Wether or not the decission your mom has taken is right or not, is not for us to tell, or guess. We have no chance of knowing what she's thinking. Just bare in mind, that there could be alot of different factors that you don't know, things she just doesn't want you to know.
I feel sorry for you that you have to move out from a place you like. (Im talking your area in general) Nothing worse than being pulled away from the things you feel is home; like friends, areas, materialistic things.
One thing I don't believe, is you saying that you're shy, and you won't get any friends. That isn't true. I mean.. You're the guy who just randomly wrote to me on steam about some strange stuff, (Not telling here, don't know how many know), which I don't really know if I would tell anyone so casually myself. xD And why wouldn't you be able to make friends? Sure they won't be the same as your current best friend, but I bet that you will find other people that you can relate to. I mean. It's a boarding school, gotta be lots of people in different situations. Some might even be in the exact same situation as yourself. I know alot of people who have gone to boarding schools, some by own choice, others against their own will, like yourself, and they all share one thing: That they all came out on the other side just fine, and with alot more friends.
So I think you are going to be just fine.
Take it as an experience. And if it's such a hellhole as you think, enjoy the thought that it's just a year. That will go by fast. And look forward till you're 18. 
Best of luck to you Ofcos! :] Give em hell!
Wether or not the decission your mom has taken is right or not, is not for us to tell, or guess. We have no chance of knowing what she's thinking. Just bare in mind, that there could be alot of different factors that you don't know, things she just doesn't want you to know.
I feel sorry for you that you have to move out from a place you like. (Im talking your area in general) Nothing worse than being pulled away from the things you feel is home; like friends, areas, materialistic things.
One thing I don't believe, is you saying that you're shy, and you won't get any friends. That isn't true. I mean.. You're the guy who just randomly wrote to me on steam about some strange stuff, (Not telling here, don't know how many know), which I don't really know if I would tell anyone so casually myself. xD And why wouldn't you be able to make friends? Sure they won't be the same as your current best friend, but I bet that you will find other people that you can relate to. I mean. It's a boarding school, gotta be lots of people in different situations. Some might even be in the exact same situation as yourself. I know alot of people who have gone to boarding schools, some by own choice, others against their own will, like yourself, and they all share one thing: That they all came out on the other side just fine, and with alot more friends.
So I think you are going to be just fine.
Best of luck to you Ofcos! :] Give em hell!
Jan 9, 2010, 01:51 AM#9
i just talked with her again.. and she says i can stay home but at the cost of not seeing my best friend ever again..so i guess it turned out slightly good
ps. bananana she said she'd do it so i could learn not to go against her
Oh. And here I just wrote a big wall of text.
Glad to hear she changed her mind a little. I can only guess that the reason to all this, has something to do with you and your best friend, and that you admitted it to her.
Well, parrents say alot of things when they are sad/angry/frustrated, but most of it when they are sad. Of course I don't know your mother, but I bet that in a couple of months, this will all be water under the bridge. Life goes on. At least it's what I hope.
I know it doesn't help you jack, but believe me. I have been through a very bad situation with my best friend aswell, and my friends mother, and my own mother both said that we were to never see eachother again. I was devestated. Thankfully after we talked it out, I could see him again after a while.
Jan 9, 2010, 03:02 AM#10
Sounds bad mate sorry wasn't ignoring you i was in killing floor and barely saw the popup >.<
Well i hope things turn out better she might just be over reacting a little, let her cool down and things should hopefully return to normal, unless the friend in question is a member of a satanic cult and regularly sacrifices virgins on your front lawn, because thats normally a no-no with the mother they never understand >.>
Well i hope things turn out better she might just be over reacting a little, let her cool down and things should hopefully return to normal, unless the friend in question is a member of a satanic cult and regularly sacrifices virgins on your front lawn, because thats normally a no-no with the mother they never understand >.>
Jan 9, 2010, 10:18 AM#11
So you can actually just stay and keep playing? 
Jan 9, 2010, 01:21 PM#12
unless the friend in question is a member of a satanic cult and regularly sacrifices virgins on your front lawn, because thats normally a no-no with the mother they never understand >.>
*snort*

Jan 10, 2010, 10:10 PM#13
wait so your staying
?. What was wrong with this friend if you don't mind me asking? Sounds like a trouble maker
.
Boarding school actually isn't as bad as it sounds, you have a lot of freedom in general.
.Boarding school actually isn't as bad as it sounds, you have a lot of freedom in general.